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What do I do?

What do I do? Dear Agatha,  I am in a very big fix. My wedding is only three weeks away but I am finding it impossible to concentrate on the arrangements or stimulate for that matter, the necessary excitement towards the bride. It all started at about a month...

My mother-in-law is a terror

My mother-in-law is a terror Dear Agatha,  My marriage is just three months old. My father-in-law is a very good man, the kind of father I prayed for. I lost my father last year and he has become a fine replacement for him. Since marrying his son, he has been...

How can I satisfy my man sexually?

How can I satisfy my man sexually? What is the difference between sex and love-making? I am confused. I have read you on this topic before, but I am still confused. I want to be able to make my husband happy. I don’t want him going outside our home for any fun....

Is she God’s will for me?

Is she God’s will for me? Dear Agatha,  I am a regular reader of your column. I need your help. I will be 28 years old in July and have been praying and desiring for a life-partner to settle down with for sometime now.  I currently don’t have any girl friend...

Re: My foul temper is becoming my bane

  Dear Agatha, l really pity that woman because l was once very temperamental. It takes patience and self-consciousness to overcome it. Ask her of the kind of environment and family she grew up in. Is it where she never shared her feelings freely with...

He is treacherous

He is treacherous Dear Agatha, Men are very treacherous. How unfair can men be to a woman! I am going to be 60 this year and have been married for 40 years. I invested everything I had into this marriage. I am the only child of my parents...

She is acting strangely

She is acting strangely With Auntie Agatha, gataedo@yahoo.com, agatha.edo@gmail.com Tel: 08054500626 Dear Agatha, I am 23 years of age. There is this lady I fell in love with and who claims to love me but, who has continued to play smart. Admittedly, I became interested in her because of her...

Re: I caught my father in bed with my wife

With Auntie Agatha, gataedo@yahoo.com, agatha.edo@gmail.com Tel: 08054500626 Dear Agatha, This is a very pitiable story. It further highlights the decay in our society. After going through the story, I actually became frightened for your safety. May God continue to protect you and your family. As for...

My ex wants me back

My ex wants me back Long ago, I fell in love; we were so much in love until we had a dispute. This disagreement led to break-up.

She doesn’t have time for me anymore

Dear Agatha, The first time my family met with her, she was just my friend. She hadn’t agreed to be my girlfriend. But before l left for the United States, she accepted the proposal to be my girlfriend.  While here, I decided that I needed...

What is wrong with me?

What is wrong with me? Dear Agatha, I am a boy of 19. I don’t last more than the first few minutes whenever I have sex with a woman. I don’t know what is happening to me. What can I do to improve performance and strength? Toheeb.    Dear Toheeb,...

They’re against my choice of woman

They’re against my choice of woman   Dear Agatha,  I stay with my elder brother who doesn’t talk or discuss anything with me. He doesn’t know how I feed, cloth or survive. I am always very sad because I am not in school like my mates. It isn’t as if I...

My foul temper is becoming my bane

My foul temper is becoming my bane   Dear Agatha, I am a single mother who had issues with the father of my child. I talked to him rudely when I perceived he wasn’t serious about committing himself to his child and I. Irrespective of his faults, the foulness of my anger...

I want to go back to school but he wants marriage

Dear Agatha,  There is this man I am dating; he is an artist and plans to marry me but I want to further my education to improve myself. This man loves me so much and has introduced me to some of his family members. He...

He’s still attached to his ex

He’s still attached to his ex I am in love with a man whom I think doesn’t feel the same way about me. He rarely calls; always claiming to be busy.