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When dating, does age make a difference?

When dating, does age make a difference?

By Kc Ejelonu When dating, age is a personal preference; well for me I don’t see myself dating someone younger than I am, unless of course he is very matured.…

Any such thing as “mr good enough?”

Any such thing as “mr good enough?”

By Kc Ejelonu.  Email: kcejelonu@gmail.com  Twitter: @kcejelonu Is it lowering your standards or being realistic when you decide to settle for ’Mr. Good Enough’? Mr. Good Enough is looking pretty…

Dealing with a serial liar

Dealing with a serial liar

By Kc Ejelonu.  Email: kcejelonu@gmail.com  Twitter: @kcejelonu Some of us tell “little” lies once in a while and we pray for forgiveness.  Sometimes, a white lie can be better than…

Giving Nollywood a bad name

Kc Ejelonu, Close-up, Email: kcejelonu@gmail.com, Twitter: @kcejelonu I hate the society I live in. All I can do is scream in my bedroom, complain for few minutes and things remain the same. I…

PDP: An implosion foretold

Candour’s Niche, Ikechukwu Amaechi, 08055069065, ikechukwuamaechi@yahoo.com, Twitter@ikechukwuamach To every discerning mind, what happened at the mini-convention of the ruling Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) penultimate week didn’t come as a surprise. It was an implosion…

2006 census: Lagos vindicates Odimegwu

2006 census: Lagos vindicates Odimegwu

Ikechukwu Amaechi, 08055069065 ikechukwuamaechi@yahoo.com, Twitter@ikechukwuamach   Will Nigeria ever become a nation of people with shared interests and values? Can we ever move from being a country of disparate tendencies and interests…

Ndigbo and Fani-Kayode’s crass irresponsibility

Ndigbo and Fani-Kayode’s crass irresponsibility

Ikechukwu Amaechi 08055069065 ikechukwuamaechi@yahoo.com Twitter@ikechukwuamach   Once again, the Muslim feast of Eid-el-Fitr has come and gone and Nigerian leaders, as usual, used the opportunity to preach the gospel of peace and…

Can APC seize the moment?

Can APC seize the moment?

Ikechukwu Amaechi, 08055069065 ikechukwuamaechi@yahoo.com Twitter@ikechukwuamach   Chieftains of the opposition parties in Nigeria are beside themselves with joy. And need I say for good reasons. Their dream baby, the All Progressives Congress…

How well do you know your partner?

By Kc Ejelonu One of the most important features of successful couple relationships is the quality of the friendship they share. How well do you know your partner’s inner world? Few…

Where is the love?

  As the famous Black Eyed Peas’ ‘Where is the Love’ song nonchalantly played in the background and in the midst of the recent tragedies emerging in the world around…

Spending quality time “alone”

Spending quality time “alone”

By Kc Ejelonu I needed a holiday and quality time alone to think, reflect, relax and most of all enjoy the things God has given me. I also needed a quiet…

The past: How much do I share?

The past: How much do I share?

Kc Ejelonu Email: kcejelonu@gmail.com  Twitter: @kcejelonu So you are in a serious relationship and everything is running smoothly. But as expected, the time has come when your boyfriend starts asking you…

Self-love

Self-love

By Kc Ejelonu Having a conversation with a young lady during the week and she complained about not being happy in her relationship but she has to be in the relationship.…